A twirl for Cinco de Mayo
Royalty chairwoman for this year's celebration is excited to start a career and be an inspiration for young moms
By Karen Cotton
kcotton@wyomingnews.com
Danelle Fernandez made some tough choices in high school.
During her senior year she was pregnant and had applied for the Cinco de Mayo scholarship. She didn't qualify for it at the time.
Last August the 21-year-old got married. Now a mother of three, she will graduate from Laramie County Community College in May with an associate's degree in elementary education.
She also is the royalty chairwoman for this year's Cinco de Mayo celebration. And she is the founder of Cinco de Mayo's ambassador folkloric group, Las Flores de Colores. They will perform this year.
"I feel like I can see the light at the end of the tunnel, and I'm excited to start my career," Fernandez said. "I hope to be an inspiration to other young moms and youth in the community."
The Cinco de Mayo banquet takes place tonight at Little America at 6 p.m. The event includes a Mexican buffet and dance.
The new Rey and Reina will be announced, and each will be awarded the $500 scholarships that Fernandez is in charge of.
The Citizen of the Year also will be announced.
Banquet tickets are $20 apiece and $30 a couple. The proceeds go toward the scholarships.
Fernandez has been working hard to get out the message about the scholarships. But Linda Lovato, chairwoman of the Cinco de Mayo event, said they've only had one application for the king scholarship and one for the queen scholarship.
"We've gotten it out to the schools, and we're working with the foreign language departments," Fernandez said. "Maybe they don't understand the importance of the financial aid. So next year we may open it up to all Hispanic freshmen college students."
This year the scholarship was offered to juniors and seniors who have grade point averages of 3.5 or higher.
"It definitely would help pay for books or half tuition if students are going to (LCCC)," Fernandez said.
She will be continuing her degree at Regis University.
"It's an honor to honor other people with financial aid so they can receive higher education," she said.
Cinco de Mayo events on May 3 include a car show along 15th Street, a green chili cook-off, food vendors, entertainment, information booths and more.
A parade was canceled due to lack of participation last year.
Fernandez said Las Flores de Colores will perform on May 3 at the Cheyenne Depot Plaza during the day-long events that run from noon to 5 p.m.
The group continues to perform at the schools to get the word out about Cinco de Mayo. It also is on the Wyoming Arts Council's Artists Roster.
"That allows us to do a lot more traveling," Fernandez said. "It's fun to be around the different communities, the big and small ones and seeing the cultural diversity."
Lovato said she's proud of Fernandez, who also helps organize Cinco de Mayo events.
"She is eager and enthusiastic, even though she goes to school. She is a mom, holds a job and comes to meetings with a bag full of ideas. I don't know when she has time to do all of this."
Cinco de Mayo commemorates Mexico's victory over the French at the La Batalla de Puebla (The Battle of Puebla) on May 5, 1862. That was more than 50 years after the country had declared independence from Spain.
"In the U.S. it's more of a celebration of pride and not a celebration of independence as many believe," Lovato said. "Cinco de Mayo has become America's most favorite Mexican holiday."
Cinco de Mayo is important to Fernandez as well.
"I am very proud of my cultural heritage, and I love to share that and help people understand the history behind Mexico."
Events
May 2 Banquet
When: 6 p.m. The dance is 8 p.m.-midnight.
Where: Little America, Grand
Ballroom, 2800 W. Lincolnway.
More info: Coronation of the king and queen, Citizen of the Year announcement, Mexican buffet dinner, dance and live entertainment with New Image Band and DJ Sounds.
Dinner tickets are $20 a person, $30 a couple, which includes the dance.
Dance only, $12 a person. For all ages; families and teens welcome. Call Linda Lovato 635-4369.
May 3 celebration
When: noon-5 p.m. Some contest events require 8 a.m. registration
Where: Cheyenne Depot Plaza
More info: Reading of the proclamation by Mayor Jack Spiker,
Mexican food, hamburgers, hot dogs, nachos, snow cones, etc., green chili cook-off, information booths, car show and other activities for families. Call 635-4369.
Entertainment sched
Noon: Hands in Harmony
12:50 p.m.: Las Flores de Colores/folkloric dancing
1:15 p.m.: Las Angelitas/folkloric dancing
1:30 p.m.: Los Rayos del Sol/
folkloric dancing
1:45 p.m.: Kenny Armijo, rap artist
2 p.m.: Grupo Unido
2:35 p.m.: Isaac Camargo, comedian
3 p.m.: Las Flores de Colores
3:30 p.m.: Las Angelitas
3:45 p.m.: Colonias de Jalisco
4 p.m.: Kenny Armijo, rap artist
4:15 p.m.: Las Flores de Colores
Car show
Low riders, custom rods, modified, etc. Motorcycles, bikes and models.
Registration: May 3, 8-11 a.m.
Where: Registration, 15th Street
in front of the depot.
More info: $20 registration fee.
Trophies will be awarded to winners. Certificates given to all. Call Tony Anaya, 421-7856.
Cinco de Mayo 2009 Scholarships
More info: For Hispanic juniors and seniors in high school. A 3.5 GPA is needed to apply. Call Danelle Fernandez, 256-8823, or Linda Lovato at 635-4369.
Reader Comments
CT wrote on May 15, 2008 6:19 PM:
" Because Ms. Fernandez was pregnant in high school, had two other children outside of being married and still found the time to contribute to her community is obviously a reason for outrage! How dare this woman didn't realize she would never be anything, never contribute anything and rollover to allow "you" wise people be the fine community activists and participants you are!! Her nerve is galling, isn't it?! Who is she to think she can help or make a difference? You know, her life should be over at 21 because she made some decisions others don't agree with! You people kill me!!That's right, she shouldn't get an education. She can never be a positive contribution to the community. She doesn't deserve to be happy. What is wrong with you??? She is showing people even though things may not always be easy, you can still succeed. She is showing people when you are given lemons make lemonade. This has nothing to do with heritage, race, class, age, this is about the pettiness of a small-minded community. "
A Solution wrote on May 15, 2008 5:47 PM:
" It seems to me many are upset by the title "Ambassadors." To alleviate some of the envy going on here, why don't the folklore dance groups alternate the title? It makes the community look more diverse and validates the importance of everyone's hard work. "
Ruth wrote on May 15, 2008 5:41 PM:
" I recently visited Mexico, our tour guide told us Cinco de Mayo is NOT celebrated in Mexico. It is an American tradition to celebrate this "holiday."
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Enid wrote on May 15, 2008 4:23 PM:
" On CNN today there was a story about a teenager who committed suicide because of cyber bulling. This is something that affects all of us. Wouldn’t you hate it if it happened to you or a loved one? If you read the blogs on this page you will see numerous cyber bullies directing their anger toward Danelle. I hope each of you who wrote derogatory, slanderous blogs about her morality understand that you are a cyber bully. You are worse than the bully on the playground that harasses another child because you are doing it under the cloak of secrecy. You will not identify who you are so she does not know who is attacking her. I am glad that your secrecy has given you the courage to attack her in such a manner. MySpace and Facebook are cracking down on cyber bullies and I hope the Wyoming Tribune Eagle will follow. I am sure that the framers of the First Amendment did not foresee such a repercussion. I hope that the general public will stop this and not allow bullies to rule the first amendment. "
Chingow wrote on May 15, 2008 3:48 PM:
" Jeese here it is May 15th and you all are bickering over something that happened 10 days ago, come people get over yourselves and press on. I am sure there are other stories the WTE can put in here to commant on. "
outsider wrote on May 15, 2008 2:29 PM:
" Jealousy is a COMPLIMENT!!!
I wouldn't take any of these comments posted against the director personally. It is obvious that it is just jealousy. "
I wouldn't take any of these comments posted against the director personally. It is obvious that it is just jealousy. "
Who Cares wrote on May 15, 2008 9:09 AM:
" I go to mexico for my birthday, vacation, forth of july, christmas, or basicaly when ever I want to get away and celebrate relax and the people in mexico don't seem to mind and I'am not mexican so what the big deal if they want to celebrate something here WHO CARES only the jealous because they did'nt get a personel invite to bad to sad go back to sleep and wake up in a better mood "
Dave - Austin TX wrote on May 15, 2008 7:17 AM:
" Cinco de Mayo is not celebrated that m;uch in Mexico, mostly the areas around where the battle took place. It was not a battle for independence. It was a battle that send the French back to Mexico City. It was just a small battle in the overall scheme of things. Mexican Independence Day is SEpt 16. "
wyorebel wrote on May 15, 2008 6:49 AM:
" If anyone in the United States wants to celebrate their own heritage then they have that right.I think its great we live in a country that allows freedom. Frredom does allow us to celebrate our own heritage. "
You Dont Know Me wrote on May 14, 2008 9:56 PM:
" It seems to me that the Dance groups are and have always been focussed on there passion (DANCING!). As a member of the community and also a member of government in the state of Wyoming, I believe that the social injustice that has been displayed here would and could amount to slander. The fruit never falls far from the tree. Parents please acknowledge that you are teaching your children a great injustice by asking them to recognize AND
defend what so clearly represents prejudice. Remember
that children learn what they live. Sure a real human being made some poor decisions early in life but does that mean she is no longer worthy of her fellow humans respect. Are are you not human? She is trying to do her best and deserves to be recognized for her accomplishments not just shown the brazen judgement most of you are displaying. "Judge ye not lest ye be judged" Danelle has desire and determination and if any of you who commented negatively can find it in your hearts; please let her know that you are proud of her and what she does to change the life of many children. "
defend what so clearly represents prejudice. Remember
that children learn what they live. Sure a real human being made some poor decisions early in life but does that mean she is no longer worthy of her fellow humans respect. Are are you not human? She is trying to do her best and deserves to be recognized for her accomplishments not just shown the brazen judgement most of you are displaying. "Judge ye not lest ye be judged" Danelle has desire and determination and if any of you who commented negatively can find it in your hearts; please let her know that you are proud of her and what she does to change the life of many children. "
Get an education wrote on May 14, 2008 8:02 PM:
" Tax payers paid for my education (FAFSA, grants and loans). It is paying for my kids college. (this is not welfare) Taxpayers pay for about 75% of kids to go to school. The state pays for people to go the UW. You can get money for college, for housing, for food, for books and alot of this money comes from taxpayers. Why is it wrong for Danelle to go to college. Is it because she is bettering herself and you are not? It is sad that you find fault in someone bettering them self. Maybe you should go to school to learn to be more tolerant. Education would make you a better person - if that is possible. "
jr wrote on May 14, 2008 6:00 PM:
" To Max
My children know of both I just don't know that much about the Mexican side. I've tried learning and the celebrations help. It gives them an idea of both worlds. The one thing that I have taught them is do not critize others. In my life time I have learned that people who are prejudice are ones who don't seek out information. They assume that a certain race is a certain way. And thats not true individuals are individuals. It has nothing to do with your race. "
My children know of both I just don't know that much about the Mexican side. I've tried learning and the celebrations help. It gives them an idea of both worlds. The one thing that I have taught them is do not critize others. In my life time I have learned that people who are prejudice are ones who don't seek out information. They assume that a certain race is a certain way. And thats not true individuals are individuals. It has nothing to do with your race. "
Snowflake wrote on May 14, 2008 2:22 PM:
" Reading this light, fluffy article, I thought, huh, how could there be 70 posts about this nice small town event? Well, apparently, some people are so bitter, negative, and nasty that they feel the need to insult a cultural dance group!? It's ok ladies...I'm sure these are the same people who post negative, racist, mean words after every single article on WTE. "
Thinker wrote on May 14, 2008 12:03 PM:
" 1. No committee member or any member of the community for that matter should be judged for the actions in their personal life. One's personal life is just that, PERSONAL.
2. Cinco de Mayo, although originally a celebration from Mexico in honor of a battle is truly about celebrating Mexican Heritage and Culture. It is simply a reason for the community to get together and be happy, appreciate each others differences and celebrate all that we have, regardless of nationality.
3. Anyone with concerns regarding how the committee handles things should join. New members are more than welcome and are needed.
Last, too much energy has been waisted on this argument and none of it has solved anything, nor changed anything. Please do not validate the many negative thoughts with a response. They do not deserve it. "
2. Cinco de Mayo, although originally a celebration from Mexico in honor of a battle is truly about celebrating Mexican Heritage and Culture. It is simply a reason for the community to get together and be happy, appreciate each others differences and celebrate all that we have, regardless of nationality.
3. Anyone with concerns regarding how the committee handles things should join. New members are more than welcome and are needed.
Last, too much energy has been waisted on this argument and none of it has solved anything, nor changed anything. Please do not validate the many negative thoughts with a response. They do not deserve it. "
To to get an education - wrote on May 14, 2008 11:08 AM:
" To the person who wrote in on 5-14-08. The "father" was not a parent to one of the dancers, he was a priest visiting. Get your facts straight. As for the college education Danelle received, programs are in place just for this reason. As a college graduate she will be paying taxes for other people on these programs (just like the rest of us). Are you sure her education was paid with taxpayers dollars? She does work. It is really sad that this small community has so much hatred against other races and more disturbing, within our hispanic community. "
Auntie Vonne wrote on May 14, 2008 8:39 AM:
" To "Get and Education" The father Enid was referring to was the "FATHER" in the CHURCH! Idiot! ! ! "
To Just Wondering wrote on May 14, 2008 7:35 AM:
" You have heard of GOOGLE, right? Perhaps you should direct your question, "Does Mexico celebrate 4th of July?," to GOOGLE.
You might learn something valuable that you can teach others to respect as well. "
You might learn something valuable that you can teach others to respect as well. "
In Agreement wrote on May 14, 2008 7:30 AM:
" I totally agree with "Get over yourselves". I recently attended the Cinco de Mayo banquet for the first time in nine years and was humored at the fact that those receiving awards were on the Cinco de Mayo committee, the entertainers were related to someone on the committee, the ambassadors are related to the committee members and even the royalty nominees were related to someone on the committee. I thought this was suppose to be a community event?? My observation was it was all a family affair on the community's expense. "
To Get an education wrote on May 14, 2008 7:24 AM:
" I did. Two comments: first one writer mentioned that one of the dancer's father came all the way from Mexico to see his daughter dance. So does that make him a good parent? why does his daughter live and "dance" here (USA) and he is in Mexico? Second your comment about "get an education" well who paid for Danelle's education? TAXPAYERS!!! The message I get is have babies, get free money to go to school. If this is not the case excuse me! "
To Enid wrote on May 13, 2008 9:03 PM:
" I would just like to say how people shouldn't judge unless they really knew what happened. Maybe if you guys would've stuck around you would've seen how the music to the other dance group at ST. Joesphs messed up on us too, but the dance group didnt freak out about it and leave. Being a dancer, i hate the fact that some people make things a competion. At st. joesphs, both dance groups all stood outside together and talked and laughed, we weren't staring eachother down, it was all about friendliness, so i would appreciate if you'd see the real picture and see that we are all close and all friends/family. This needs to stop, because it's just plain stupid. All of us dancers in any dance group dance because we love it, not to attack another dance group. GET REAL! So please, get the facts right before you start blaming or pointing fingers at anyone. And how "grown up" was it to just walk out, to me it was disrespectful, especially to the father who came all the way from mexico to be there. Just let us dancers have fun with dancing, enough with the drama! "
Leave the dancers alone wrote on May 13, 2008 7:27 PM:
" A few months ago 6 girls ambused a girl and beat her up all for their moment of fame. Everyone was outraged. Yet, when a group of parents get together and write nasty articles about a young lady, the Wyoming Tribune Eagle allows. I want to know why these brave individuals are not signing the letters with their real names, could it be that nothing they are saying is true. The lies that they are spreading cannot be proven true or false because no one knows who is spreading them and they are not offering facts to prove them. I say unless you use your real name, SHUT UP. I for one are tired of hearing how people walk out when you are performing. You must be really bad if that is what is going on. "
Just wondering wrote on May 13, 2008 2:48 PM:
" Is our 4th of July celebrated in Mexico? if not does that make Mexico racist? Also if folks are so proud of another country why are they here? if I was so proud of Canada do you think that I would live here and preach of the greatness of Cananda? nope, that would just make me look like an idiot. "
Get an education wrote on May 13, 2008 12:27 PM:
" After reading all the blogs it is quite obvious that most of the writers (the greatest critics of the dance instructor and her students) have lower than a eighth grade education. Their sentence structure is poor, their reasoning is less than perfect and their paragraphs are written without any purpose (I have 5th graders with better writing skills). Second, with such hostility toward the dance instructor and her students, these individuals are either very poor parents or will never make good parents. I think with their lack of education and poor parenting skills they have chosen to take their anger out on an individual who has made something of herself. She is educated (which I cannot say for the critical writers), it sounds like she has a family that cares for her (which the writers obviously do not) and she has a talent (which I am sure most of the writers would like to have). It is just another case of the have not’s blaming the haves for what they lack. To the critics, please return to school, get an education, and do something with your anger issues. Congratulations to this young lady "
kitty wrote on May 13, 2008 10:21 AM:
" To AJL: I agree.
To the white supremacists: Go back to your Hitler Youth rally. Leave the rest of us alone facists.
:P "
To the white supremacists: Go back to your Hitler Youth rally. Leave the rest of us alone facists.
:P "
ReplytoSister wrote on May 12, 2008 8:09 PM:
" To Sister: Yes sister I think all the groups should support each other but that's not the case. I watched as all the dancers danced and was disappointed to see the so called "Ambassadors" exit following their dancing. Aren't most of the dancers in Danelle's dance group family members? Not a problem but is there any bias toward her group? I think so and further more were there any pictures on the big screen showing other dance groups? NO go figure that one out! Good Job Wyoming Tribute Eagle for the big picture of the "OTHER" dance group that performed at Cole Elementry it's nice to see Other dancers get some recognition for a change as they deserve it as much if not more than the so called "Ambassadors". Fairness and bias? Danelle does a great job but let's give some credit where credit is due or (long past due) in this case. There are a select few who get repeated credit for something all the dance groups seem to do well. I agree with the writer who pointed out that being a positive role model does not reflect having children first and seeking education second. "
Wyoming Realist wrote on May 12, 2008 12:10 PM:
" WOW!! such negativity from our community over a newspaper article. I took quite a few positives from the article. The United States Of America is "The Great Melting Pot Of The World" We would like to think that the people in our country are becoming more tolerant of others but, in reading the blogs here, WTE posters, have proven that true Unity is still a distant dream. "
Public wrote on May 12, 2008 8:06 AM:
" Deport Plaza is public property therefore, anybody is allowed to celebrate whatever they want. Who cares if they want to celebrate this holiday, nobody is forcing you to go. Back off these people and stop making Cheyenne look like a bunch of racist idiots. "
Getoveryourselves wrote on May 12, 2008 7:57 AM:
" Enough already! Danelle, Danelle, Danelle enough about Danelle already! So this group is just that a group! Sorry folks but I don't get it. This young lady (mother of three) is no better than any other young lady out there dancing ok. In fact, I thought all the performers were great, what's the big deal about being the "Cinco de Mayo Ambassadors"? It's all political anyway! If you are buddies with the Committee or a family member of someone on the committee or related to a committee member THAT'S what determines if you make the "Offical Cinco de Mayo Ambassadors". It's a big joke come on people you got to laugh not cry! You want to see change? Change the Committee if you can, and then and only then will you get results!!! Yes she can dance and teach others to dance what's the big deal. I just hope she does teach them that making babies is more important than an education!! Inspiration? I don't know if I agree with that statement I would not want my children to follow in her footsteps I want my children to get an education and THEN think about having kids. "
OH COME ON wrote on May 12, 2008 7:33 AM:
" I was born American, I'm a white 30-something male, and I have NEVER seen anything negative come from a Cinco de Mayo celebration. We celebrate Mardis-Gras (originally a french celebration), St Patty's day (Irish), Halloween(arguably pagan ie not traditional "christian" american), kwanza is celebrated here with no complaints either, hanukka(not sure on spelling, apologies) so why do we have to make a huge stink about little girls dancing in colorful dresses and enjoying who they are?! "
Enid wrote on May 12, 2008 6:15 AM:
" Actually, my back yard is quite clean, thank you. The tone of my response comes from the open distain and public humiliation my daughter experienced during a performance at St. Joseph's when her dance was interrupted by a spokesperson for the other dance group to allow what this spokesperson called the "real" dancers to take the stage. This un-professionalism sparks the tone of my letters nothing else. "
Get a real life wrote on May 12, 2008 1:21 AM:
" Everyone here needs to get off of your high horses and shut your idiotic pie holes. Don't we have better things to talk about? Does it always have to boil down to the race card? I could care less what stupid race any of you are. Everyone bleeds the same color. Feel happy that you aren't among those hungry children who lost their parents and other family members in the cyclone last week. I'm sure none of them are sitting around saying..."it must be because I am brown." Stop thinking that you are better than others just because of your race. That goes for ALL of you selfish idiots! "
AJL wrote on May 11, 2008 5:06 PM:
" I had no idea so many white supremacists lived in Cheyenne until the Tribune Eagle started allowing user comments.
What a disturbing eye opener. "
What a disturbing eye opener. "
Sister wrote on May 11, 2008 4:20 PM:
" To Ms White. I was only giving some constructive criticism and never once did I say that we weren't to blame for some things either, however, I was simply stating what has been observed by others in the community not just by the group. I didn't mean that any group was better in any sort of way, I just stated what was felt among the girls in our group. The fact that you are so defensive must mean that your backyard isn't all that clean either. I commend Danelle for all her hard work and apparently you missed the point of my blog. Simply put, the girls should take the time to learn from each other instead of compete with each other. There is enough room in this town for all of the groups. Apparently you are too focused on the negative to look at any of the positive that I wrote. "
Parent of a dancer cont wrote on May 11, 2008 4:17 PM:
" Cheyenne HAS no "competition" as far as dance groups go, they are free to do what they want and be proud of what they do. In our opinion, there is no first, second or third place for dance groups, they all rate as #1's because there are so many different styles of dance that no one does the same dances, each dance group does different regions. I TRULY think the next time there are multiple performances, to PLEASE watch and you WILL see what other dancers and parents see. "
Parent of a dancer wrote on May 11, 2008 4:11 PM:
" To Enid: As a parent of a dancer, who has not been in Danelle's group, I have witnessed first hand, when my daugher was in 3rd grade, that when she danced where ever Danelle's group danced they would not say hello to any of the other dancers, and at that time there were 2 other dance groups in Cheyenne. I don't know how long your child has been dancing, but 3 years ago, that is exactly what I saw, they went in, did their dances and then walk away, to stand around and talk and give dirty looks. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to see what was going on and to make other dancers feel bad about themselves whether that was intentional or not, that IS the message that came across to the other 2 dance groups. As far as what "Sister" said, I totally agree. I don't know where "competition" came into play with this, but I DO know that Cheyenne is big enough to have different groups and not feel threatened or insecure about their groups. When you have the passion to dance, that's all a person wants to, "
Liz wrote on May 11, 2008 10:48 AM:
" To "Proud to be white”
Individuals are “the best” when they treat others with respect no matter what race, religion etc;
It is who you are inside that makes a difference of whether you are a better person.
Based on your attitude you appear to be in the "not so better category”
Work on being a better person and have some respect, then maybe you can move up in the world as a "better person."
This goes for the rest of you that have mean, hateful and worthless comments.
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Individuals are “the best” when they treat others with respect no matter what race, religion etc;
It is who you are inside that makes a difference of whether you are a better person.
Based on your attitude you appear to be in the "not so better category”
Work on being a better person and have some respect, then maybe you can move up in the world as a "better person."
This goes for the rest of you that have mean, hateful and worthless comments.
"
Stacy Becker wrote on May 11, 2008 7:40 AM:
" Our son is Mexican, Puerto Rican, Italian and Irish. We call him our little mexamickawoparican...
There is nothing wrong with celebrating your heritage. I take him to Festa (Italian Festival) every year. When he visits his Grandparents in Georgia he learns more about his Puerto Rican heritage. He is an extremely well rounded child. If you ever ask him what he is though,, he will answer proudly that he is an American. As are we all, and as such we have the right to celebrate whatever we want. Be it the Scottish Festival in Estes, Festa, The Greek Festival, Cinco De Mayo, whatever. We are free to celebrate and learn more about any culture we choose. That is the beauty of being an American. "
There is nothing wrong with celebrating your heritage. I take him to Festa (Italian Festival) every year. When he visits his Grandparents in Georgia he learns more about his Puerto Rican heritage. He is an extremely well rounded child. If you ever ask him what he is though,, he will answer proudly that he is an American. As are we all, and as such we have the right to celebrate whatever we want. Be it the Scottish Festival in Estes, Festa, The Greek Festival, Cinco De Mayo, whatever. We are free to celebrate and learn more about any culture we choose. That is the beauty of being an American. "
MAT wrote on May 10, 2008 10:27 PM:
" When I walk down the street or go into town, I don't see people just for the color that they are. I see the way that they act and how they treat others. I think that a lot of people are like me. People of color are paranoid and they think that everyone is out to get them based on the color of their skin. I say, get over your insecurity. Most people will treat you good if you treat them good and if they don't then they are just jerks….it's not just because they are racist. I get treated like trash by people of my own ethnicity. I don't blame it on racism. I blame the idiot who woke up on the wrong side of the bed and hasn't learned to be kind to others. He/She will have a hard life. Put racism behind us and treat everyone with kindness. It won't always be returned but at least we gave it a try. After that we can say kiss my rear then. "
max wrote on May 10, 2008 10:21 PM:
" To JR....did you teach your kids to be proud of their mexican heritage, or their white heratige....or both? I suspect that you have taught them to forget the white half. "
To cinco de mayo wrote on May 10, 2008 10:19 PM:
" No one knocks "our" heritage/celebrations? What a laugh! A white person can't even say they are proud to be white without being accused of being racist. Get real non-whites. The only PEOPLE—white and of color that I don't have a problem with are the ones who aren't RACIST! Racism is overrated. Everyone should get off of it and let the past go. You celebrate your way, and I'll celebrate my way and everyone needs to just stay the hell away from one another if they don't agree. "
Proud to be white. wrote on May 10, 2008 10:12 PM:
" Why should I pay any more respect to a mexican celebration then they do to a white cielebration? Are mexicans better than white people? I DON'T THINK SO! "
Ace wrote on May 10, 2008 10:08 PM:
" Danelle Fernandez is, or at least should be an inspiration to young mothers out there who can't seem to find the motivation to go to college to earn a degree and to get off of welfare. The government suppresses us enough as it is. It isn't an easy road to take, but it is the most rewarding. Congratulations Danelle, and to every other mother out there who has made something more than a mattress out of themselves. "
Enid wrote on May 10, 2008 9:54 AM:
" To whoever uses the anonomyous name "Sister". We can debate the issue of who watches who, who stays while the other dance, who is a better role model, and who deserves to be Ambassador, but the truth of the matter is, there is no reason to laying all the blame on one group when if truth be told there is enough blame to be spread around for all to share. It is a fact of life that when you are competing there is going to be enmity. I have seen and heard mothers, fathers, sisters,and other family members of dancers from other dance groups belittle and degrade the dancers from Flores de Colores and other groups (in fact one group was repremanded for this just last year). I have seem them walk out on performances and most recently interrupt a performance by the preformers of Flores de Colores in such a deleterious manner as to embarrass and degrade the dancers. So before you lay all the blame of who treats who the worst, please check and make sure you and yours are above reproach. Odds are, human nature dictates and they are not. "
jr wrote on May 10, 2008 9:17 AM:
" why would you care
A teenage girl who has made a success out of her life. What have you done for Cheyenne? Or better yet for your country? My children are half white and half Mexican. I have told them to be proud of their heritage. For alot years the Cheyenne public has made other races feel less then what they are. Were all equal and anybody who judges by skin color should have to walk in their shoes. It's not alot of fun when people have a pre concieved idea of who you are just by your skin color or your last name. I find even more laughable when you see the non educated white man cutting down and educated black or mexican or whatever race. Its very sad when people can't get along. "
A teenage girl who has made a success out of her life. What have you done for Cheyenne? Or better yet for your country? My children are half white and half Mexican. I have told them to be proud of their heritage. For alot years the Cheyenne public has made other races feel less then what they are. Were all equal and anybody who judges by skin color should have to walk in their shoes. It's not alot of fun when people have a pre concieved idea of who you are just by your skin color or your last name. I find even more laughable when you see the non educated white man cutting down and educated black or mexican or whatever race. Its very sad when people can't get along. "
ccc wrote on May 10, 2008 9:05 AM:
" lets start checking some green cards at these events! i think this is a great opportunity to get rid of some immigrants! "
Why would you care..... wrote on May 9, 2008 8:57 PM:
" how any culture wanted to celebrate their heritage????
I will say... though...that I hope that an unwed teen who gives birth to a baby and then goes on to have 2 more babies before she is 21 or married.... NEVER becomes a role model for our youth. I suppose we should congratulate ourselves instead for paying for her choices in life. We, the taxpayer, that is. "
I will say... though...that I hope that an unwed teen who gives birth to a baby and then goes on to have 2 more babies before she is 21 or married.... NEVER becomes a role model for our youth. I suppose we should congratulate ourselves instead for paying for her choices in life. We, the taxpayer, that is. "
newman .las vegas wrote on May 9, 2008 8:16 PM:
" excuse my spelling but i will try to get my point across people say that we mexicans should go to mexico to celebrate cinco de mayo well what about frontier days the cows and the the bulls' and the horses' well who do you think brought them to the us it was the spanierds , people like the one ho made the coment are nieve just like the ones ho say go back to mexico some of the united states is mexico jerks. "
Cinco de Mayo wrote on May 9, 2008 7:54 PM:
" This celebration is fun and I enjoo it. If you dont like the celebration, stay away...no one makes you attend. Many cultures celebrate, many people enjoy..no one knocks your nationality so stop with the criticism. Appreciate the fact that we are allowed to enjoy and celebrate the occasions and allowed to have many nationalities in one community..IT IS A WONDERFUL THING !!! "
Sister wrote on May 9, 2008 5:16 PM:
" Continuing on...this is not a competition, all the dancers do this because they love to dance. They should be applauded for all their hard work. I think all the groups can learn something from each other. "
Sister wrote on May 9, 2008 5:12 PM:
" I respect Danelle for trying her hardest with her dance group and accomplishing so much as a mother of three. I also believe that all the dance groups should work together and support each other!! As a sister of a dancer, jealousy in our group has never been the issue...it is the cold shoulder that we get from the other dance group that upsets us. Danelle's group will never know what it feels like to have the other groups walk away while she is performing because we have better sportsmanship than that. Costume changes is just an excuse, the other gilrs had costume changes too and still found the time to stay and watch the other girls. I think as "Ambassadors" it is their job to make sure everyone feels welcome and I don't believe they do a good job of that. I understand that Danelle's group are the Cinco de Mayo Ambassadors, but I also think that the other girls who have dance groups should be praised for their hard work in the community because it's not just Flores de Colores who perform at schools and state/city functions. "
Multi-racial families are a fact of life wrote on May 9, 2008 12:12 PM:
" To Yawn: Usted suena como la basura blanca. Multi-racial families have become a fact of life. Deal with it. There is nothing wrong with celebrating your heritage. I guess by your argument we should not allow the Greek festival or Oktoberfest to be held in Cheyenne. Yeah right. You my friend need to go back to whatever rock you crawled out from and continue hibernating. "
LEAVING wrote on May 9, 2008 8:54 AM:
" I guess we shouldn't be celebrating Christmas or Easter...since they didn't START in this country either...how dare we rip off another countries holidays...(dripping with sarcasm...) "
Love thy neighbor... wrote on May 9, 2008 8:48 AM:
" I Corinthians 12:14 and 25
"Now the body is not made of one part but of many. If the foot should say, "Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body, it would not for that reason cease to be a part of the body. There should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other."
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"Now the body is not made of one part but of many. If the foot should say, "Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body, it would not for that reason cease to be a part of the body. There should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other."
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ha wrote on May 9, 2008 6:04 AM:
" Obama was RIGHT! Obama was RIGHT! There is a small percentage of people in this country being left behind and they are VERY bitter because of it, it's easy to see when you read these blogs! The people that get on here and spout of about their "America" are probably; uninsured, overweight, high school educated males. Who have marginal job skills and feel threatened by hispanics. Or any other ethnic group from their own for that matter. They get on here and lash out, because it's the only outlet that they have. The days for these people are over though folks, America is multicultural. IT always has been and always will be. It will continue to get more diverse much to the chagrin of people like "Yawn" But just remember folks their response to becoming obsolete, is to lash out, and that's what they will do. I welcome diversity as a white male, and I appreciate all cultures for what they bring to the table. "
Enid White wrote on May 8, 2008 7:30 PM:
" I cannot believe that there are so many vicious people in one town. The committee members, the sponsors of the Cinco de Mayo celebration and the individuals who participated in the entertainment are American citizens – just like those that participate in the any other ethnic celebration celebrated in Cheyenne (which by the way like the rest of America is a melting pot of many nationalities). The Governor of the state of Wyoming and the Mayor of the city of Cheyenne proclaimed the day a holiday. If you have a problem with the proclamation, please take it up with the State of Wyoming and the City of Cheyenne. Remember, there are many members of the Cinco de Mayo committee, parents of participants and sponsors of the celebration who are veterans who fought so that you could voice your opinion. "
Enid White wrote on May 8, 2008 7:13 PM:
" I cannot believe that someone would stoop so low as to put in such a childish, nonsensical and unnecessary personal attacks on specific individuals. The attack on the director of Flores de Colores was so petty that it does not deserve a response except to say, but for the grace of God, there goes you. "
Enid White wrote on May 8, 2008 7:05 PM:
" As a parent of one of the dancers I am sick and tired of the petty jealousy of certain individual in the folkloric community. Every year during Cinco de Mayo jealousy rears its ugly face, all because of a label – Ambassador. Unbeknownst to many of you, the Cinco de Mayo Ambassadors dance in local schools, at local clubs, at state and city functions to get the word out about folkloric dancing, which by the way benefits all of the folkloric dancers in Cheyenne, not just one group. They have one of the busiest practice and performance schedules for dancers in Cheyenne. I have personally witnessed the dancers from Flores de Colores support, cheer for and admire the other folkloric dancers in Cheyenne. It is time for the petty jealously to end and the groups should come together as one instead of fighting in the newspaper which makes the entire group of dancers look bad. I have never believed in airing dirty laundry in public but I will defend my daughter in public. "
You all need to stop judging wrote on May 8, 2008 7:04 PM:
" No woner there are so much predujice people in this world. I am 1/2 white 1/2 mexican. I am a single mother of 3 children. Dont judge this girls based on what you think is right and wrong. Give her a round of applause for not living off the welfare system, raising her children in a positive manner, and offering something extra for kids to enjoy doing besides getting in trouble. It is good to have different celebrations in the US, espically to educate our children about the different lifestyles of differet cultures and ethnic backgrounds. One thing I will say is if you all think we need to send Cino De Mayo back to Mexico, then send st. patricks day back to Ireland, and send you "greek octoberfest" activities back to greek. Open your eyes people and quit judging people. "
jr wrote on May 8, 2008 5:33 PM:
" Why is a Mexican American not allowed to celebrate their culture? I'm guessing St. Pats day needs to go back to Ireland. Oh and by the way I'm white Irish and AMERICAN and proud and willing to allow other cultures into our nation. "
MudSlinger wrote on May 8, 2008 4:43 PM:
" Well there seems to be alot of mixed feelings and messages going on over a simple article printed in the local paper! Ok, first what is your motive for attacking Cinco de Mayo, Ms Dance Instructor, and Mexicans and/or Mexican Americans in general? As I see it, the holiday is a celebration of culture (how many white American people actually know what their true heritage is?) Most are basically Heinz 57s, and the rest claim to be a decendant of some Native American family tree (usually Cherokee). In case you haven't noticed lately this country has become a "melting pot" of mixed cultures, nationalities, race, in fact I would guess there isn't one "true blue blood" American who is responding to this blog...hmmm go research your family tree that'll keep you busy for a while. "
allysha moreno wrote on May 8, 2008 3:28 PM:
" i really think that everyone who had something bad to say about danelle should keep there hateful comments to them selves and who ever feels they need to comment on how danelle lives her life just goes to show everyone that they have nothing better to do all day then say hateful mean things about someone they don't even know and that you don't have lives as well, and as far as cinco de mayo if you don't like it and don't want to be apart of it then don't but be respect others and what they choose to celebrate after all that is what america is all about it is a free country "
Yoli Pacheco wrote on May 8, 2008 3:21 PM:
" My comment to all of the people who made "negative" comments about her having 3 kids or not celebrating this in the United States....you cannot fix ignorant people. We will continue to pray for people like you. "
Leslie wrote on May 8, 2008 2:46 PM:
" Unreal! You need to step back and take a look at yourself before you start talking about people!
Yes, she has 3 children at a young age...and she is ambitious, hard working is graduating from College this weekend...do you have a college degree? The fact that she has three children is not seen as a negative factor by her family and friends as we support her in anything that she may decide to do....which is more than most. Danelle holds a full-time career, is a wife, mother, student and dance instructor. Very ambitious I say.
Which I shouldn't even be replying to the ignorance of some people it probably doesn't even deserve a reply.............
Danelle does what she does as a Positive influence on the community. What do you do? Yeah, it makes America better one city at a time...one kid at a time or 20 cuz that is how many kids choose to participate in her dance group...taxpayers money? Her and her husband work.....as far as the person who made the comment about birth control...mind your own! "
Yes, she has 3 children at a young age...and she is ambitious, hard working is graduating from College this weekend...do you have a college degree? The fact that she has three children is not seen as a negative factor by her family and friends as we support her in anything that she may decide to do....which is more than most. Danelle holds a full-time career, is a wife, mother, student and dance instructor. Very ambitious I say.
Which I shouldn't even be replying to the ignorance of some people it probably doesn't even deserve a reply.............
Danelle does what she does as a Positive influence on the community. What do you do? Yeah, it makes America better one city at a time...one kid at a time or 20 cuz that is how many kids choose to participate in her dance group...taxpayers money? Her and her husband work.....as far as the person who made the comment about birth control...mind your own! "
Benji wrote on May 8, 2008 1:59 PM:
" I attended the celebration a couple of years ago when it was held at the Holiday Inn parking lot. I was suprised at how the celebration crossed the generation spectrum; lots of children and seniors present. The lyrics to the song being sung by the band were so profane that I gathered up my family and left. No one else seemed to care. Haven't been back sence. "
bruiser wrote on May 8, 2008 1:08 PM:
" We need to stop celebrating other countries holidays. This is the USA not Mexico. If you want to celebrate Cinco de Mayo go back to mexico. "
Come on people wrote on May 8, 2008 11:56 AM:
" Wow, how sad that this is turning into something so hateful and cruel. The point of this article was to share something positive with the community. Danelle works hard, gives back to the community in a number of ways and helps children of all ages get involved. Does it matter if she has three kids? So she made a few mistakes, did things backwords. She is working hard to make up for those mistakes. Get off of it people, be proud that there was an article about a celebration and not gun fights. Sad. "
DJ McMenus wrote on May 8, 2008 11:41 AM:
" Okay people. I am appalled at some of the comments on this post. I guess I should point out to those of you trying to turn this into a race issue that Cinco De Mayo isn't even celebrated widely in Mexico! It is a holiday mainly in the US. It is a chance for people to get together and have a good time. And furthermore, who cares if Danelle has three kids before the age of 21? She IS married, she IS productive, and she IS doing something with her life. What are your kids doing to be active in the Cheyenne community? I know the family that Danelle comes from and they are good Christians, so to end on a biblical note: "Judge not lest ye be judged". Why would anyone want to take the positive things that Danelle is doing and turn them into a negative? "
Veteran Joe wrote on May 8, 2008 11:18 AM:
" Unless you served your country, you didn't do anything to "earn" your citizenship. You are just lucky you popped out of a womb on American soil. How does that make you different from a Mexican that has moved here then? I'm waiting for the answer. While you try and come up with some Rush Limbaugh excuse I will be having my Dos Equis at the pub celebrating. "
RaiderMax wrote on May 8, 2008 11:03 AM:
" Wow ! What bigotry,ignorance, and spewing of hatred , by these "3 Stooges" signing off as Fraudulant "Yawn", "Agree", and "Be Realistic" ! What morons ! It's a mere expression of pride ! I have never witnessed animous towards the St. Patrick's Day celebration or to other events celebrated by prideful white Americans. It seems just idiots like these three come out of the woodwork, cockroaches that they are, during minority celebrations like Cinco De Mayo, Martin Luther King, Jr's birthday, etc. What a bunch of losers ! Makes me sad that I come from a city that some of it's citizenry harbor such hatred and intolerence towards other races based on a mere celebration of pride. This is the UNITED STATES, and obviously, these 3 are too stupid to know, that the definition of "United" is all together as one. "
American wrote on May 8, 2008 9:24 AM:
" Yes it to bad these people don't know that this is the USA. And three kids before she hit 21 wow. And teaching dance this is something that is going to make america better. I wonder how much all this cost the tax payer. "
dpb wrote on May 8, 2008 7:25 AM:
" The bigotry dispayed here is so typical of why I chose to leave Wyoming over 20 years ago. I was born, raised and educated in Wyoming, and the prevailing attitude sickened me. Clearly, nothing has changed.
VIVA Cinco de Mayo "
VIVA Cinco de Mayo "
siffy wrote on May 7, 2008 11:40 PM:
" I'm all for celebrations... 'm all for valuing life and family, etc.
But is birth control part of this?
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But is birth control part of this?
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Mom wrote on May 7, 2008 5:03 PM:
" Yes, all the girls work hard and are a joy to watch. Several of us in Flores de Colores have friends and family in the other groups. I don't think that it should be about competition but an activity to keep the girls busy and to help them learn and be involved in. A positive learning experience. Of course you work hard you have fun and YES you get attention-Ambassadors or not. This title comes from all the hard work and the fact that Danelle started this group on her own at the age of 15 and still continues to work and support the Commitee.
The goal here is to do something positive for our girls no matter what "group" they are in. "
The goal here is to do something positive for our girls no matter what "group" they are in. "
Center of Attention wrote on May 7, 2008 1:14 PM:
" it does seem like those girls want to be the center of attention but they do work hard. I think the other groups work just as hard and they deserve the same attention. I guess everyone has their "favorites". Maybe they need to pick a new committee so that others can have a fair shot at success. "
Mom wrote on May 7, 2008 12:09 PM:
" To Grandma,
The Flores de Colores truly do uphold their position as the Cinco de Mayo Embassadors. They are very involved in the community and display great attitudes and dedication to their group. Leaving the Arena and not attending to the other dancers -the intention of this was not to be rude but some of our girls did have to change their costumes for the other dances that they perform. I, myself and Danelle have talked to our girls about being respectful to others, especially other groups/dancers, performers, speakers..etc. We have experienced the same thing happening to us on several occasions. I think what happens is that whoever dances first may stay or not stay to watch others for whatever reason. Performing multiple times may play into this as well, after a long day like they had Saturday...they were tired and of course as teens they wanted to visit with their friends which included the other groups.
So, please be careful to point the finger when you have 4 pointing back at "
The Flores de Colores truly do uphold their position as the Cinco de Mayo Embassadors. They are very involved in the community and display great attitudes and dedication to their group. Leaving the Arena and not attending to the other dancers -the intention of this was not to be rude but some of our girls did have to change their costumes for the other dances that they perform. I, myself and Danelle have talked to our girls about being respectful to others, especially other groups/dancers, performers, speakers..etc. We have experienced the same thing happening to us on several occasions. I think what happens is that whoever dances first may stay or not stay to watch others for whatever reason. Performing multiple times may play into this as well, after a long day like they had Saturday...they were tired and of course as teens they wanted to visit with their friends which included the other groups.
So, please be careful to point the finger when you have 4 pointing back at "
Elsie wrote on May 6, 2008 10:58 AM:
" Hey Yawn, the United States is not at war with Mexico. You idiot! Why are you reading so much into a simple celebration of Mexican culture. Believe it or not, there are hundreds of thousands (if not more) Mexican American citizens in the United States. Let them celebrate Cinco de Mayo. What's the big deal? "
Grandma C wrote on May 5, 2008 3:24 PM:
" The Cinco De Mayo celebration was great, what a wonderful way for the hispanic community to gather together. It was sad that there weren't more people at the banquet. Wonderful story on Danielle. I did happened to notice that on Saturday, once Ms. Fernandez's dance group finished, her dancers left the entertainment arena, but then I also noticed that the other dance groups watched and supported Ms. Fernandez's groups performances and applauded for them, I wonder why that is? I don't believe they are truley acting as Embassadors. The meaning of which is: an official representative of an organization or movement. Be proud of your status as Embassadors and remain there to watch others, even if its only as a courtesy
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Folklorico Dancer wrote on May 5, 2008 3:10 PM:
" I had so much fun at the cinco de mayo event. I was able to dance and have fun, while enjoying my cultural background with others. Yawn guy needs to respect others who enjoy this holiday. People can be so rude sometimes. Cinco De Mayo is a time of celebration for many mexican families, he should respect that. "
Yawn wrote on May 4, 2008 10:26 PM:
" Someone using my moniker, Yawn, wrote this previous post.
I assure you his/her comments in no way reflect my opinion of Cinco de Mayo.
It is one thing to post comments anonymously, quite another to attribute your ignorant comments to another poster. What a low life loser!
Yawn
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I assure you his/her comments in no way reflect my opinion of Cinco de Mayo.
It is one thing to post comments anonymously, quite another to attribute your ignorant comments to another poster. What a low life loser!
Yawn
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ha wrote on May 4, 2008 7:48 PM:
" wow, a nice story and of course without a doubt somebody has to bring up the immigration debate. Even better he brings up this supposed "war" with Mexico, I'd debate immigration with "yawn" but it just wouldn't be fair. Live your lives be happy and quit worrying so much about what other people are doing. Congrats to all the performers at this celebration, it looks like it'll be fun for all involved. "
Be Realistic wrote on May 4, 2008 1:08 PM:
" Cinco de Mayo:
Car show, Low riders, custom rods,modified, DJ Sounds, Motorcycles, bikes and models.
How does any of this have to do with Cinco de Mayo, which was an initial victory of Mexican forces led by General Ignacio Zaragoza Seguín over French forces in the Battle of Puebla on May 5, 1862.
Just celebrate your victory but leave the car shows etc for another gathering.
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Car show, Low riders, custom rods,modified, DJ Sounds, Motorcycles, bikes and models.
How does any of this have to do with Cinco de Mayo, which was an initial victory of Mexican forces led by General Ignacio Zaragoza Seguín over French forces in the Battle of Puebla on May 5, 1862.
Just celebrate your victory but leave the car shows etc for another gathering.
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Agree wrote on May 4, 2008 12:58 PM:
" To Yawn
YOU are so right on. This Mexican celebration does not need to be held here in the UNITED STATES of AMERICA.
Does America celebrate the 4th of July in Mexico, NO!! we don't.
It's time to put a stop to it all before it's to late.
Speak up American born people! "
YOU are so right on. This Mexican celebration does not need to be held here in the UNITED STATES of AMERICA.
Does America celebrate the 4th of July in Mexico, NO!! we don't.
It's time to put a stop to it all before it's to late.
Speak up American born people! "
Yawn wrote on May 3, 2008 8:03 PM:
" This is wrong in so many ways, I don't have the time to detail them all.
Any celebration of a Mexican military victory should be taking place in Mexico, not here.
We are currently involved in a war with Mexico, it's just not being fought with guns.
We better stop this stuff if we don't want Cheyenne and the resot of the US to look like Tijuana or East LA. "
Any celebration of a Mexican military victory should be taking place in Mexico, not here.
We are currently involved in a war with Mexico, it's just not being fought with guns.
We better stop this stuff if we don't want Cheyenne and the resot of the US to look like Tijuana or East LA. "
Auntie Vonne wrote on May 2, 2008 11:05 AM:
" I think it's wonderful thing that Danelle does with her group of young people. She not only teaches dance, but also emphasizes on self respect and respect of others which makes them proud to represent the city of Cheyenne as the Official Cinco de Mayo Ambassadors. "
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